Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Just 3 Steps to make Long Distance Relationship work

Are you in love with someone and hoping that he is by your side every moment? However, this cannot be realised at the moment because both of you are having a long distance relationship? Many long distance relationships do not work out at the end is because either or both parties cannot sustain the loneliness of not having a companion beside him/her. They prefer someone who can take physical care of them and therefore, they give up the long distance relationship and with someone who is physically beside them. Now, you are in a long distance relationship and you really hope that it can last. How can you do it? Just follow the three simple steps below.

Firstly, treat him as your one and only. Well, you might say, “of course I am treating him as my one and only or else I would not have gone into a long distance relationship.” If that is so, maintain it. Many couples say and presume that each other is their one and only until they realise they cannot stand the loneliness and eager for someone to be beside them. By that time, they will also know that their so called “one and only” can be replaced easily by another “one and only”. Therefore, this so called “one and only” is not really treated like that.

When you really know that he is irreplaceable, your relationship with him will be as tough as the diamond. No one can influence you and nothing can stop you from being with him. You know that no matter how difficult it is to be in a long distance relationship, you two can overcome the obstacles eventually. When you have such strong thought in mind, I can assure you that long distance relationship is not a problem for you at all.

Secondly, keep in touch with him everyday. Undeniably speaking, you cannot have physical touch with him everyday in a long distance relationship but that does not mean that you cannot talk to him everyday. Even the time zones can be different when both of you are not in the same country, you can definitely find the time that suit both of you to contact each other. When you have the heart to maintain it, you will not care about the different time zone.

Communicating with him everyday is very important because both of you have been deprived of the chance to be physically together everyday. Without constant communication, both parties cannot feel each other presence at all. By talking with him everyday, both of you can feel that you two have each other in daily lives. Even though not seeing face to face, you still can feel that he is part of your life. In fact, you can choose to see him face to face through webcam. We are now living in the 21st century which enables us to contact each other easily. Therefore, you have no excuse to not keep in touch with him everyday.

Finally, be understanding. Many disputes happen in long distance relationship are because either or neither party are being considerate. They only think for themselves and never put themselves into their partners’ shoes to think on their behalf. In any type of relationship, couples can get frustrated due to dissatisfaction of each other’s performance in relationship. However, it is not easy for couples in long distance relationship to cheer their partners up. Due to the distance, your boyfriend finds it difficult to see you and to hold your hand and apologise or sweet talk to you.

Therefore, you need to have extra patience towards this relationship and you have to be more understanding towards such situation. Avoid not answering his phone calls after you are mad with him. Probably one or two times are acceptable but if he has kept calling you a couple of times, at least you message him and let him know that you will not answer his phone now. Nevertheless, it is advisable to solve the problem with him than to ignore it. After all, he has taken the effort to call you. If you want him to appear in front of you immediately, you really need to consider if you are suitable to be in a long distance relationship.

In conclusion, long distance relationship is not easy to maintain but it is not impossible. When you really treat him as your one and only, willing to take time to keep in touch with him everyday, and most importantly, be considerate towards him, not only your long distance relationship can be maintained, but it can also grow stronger than those who can see each other physically. All the best and good luck to you.


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