It is not difficult to meet new people and make new friends but there may be difficulties to know whether he is your Mr.Right. You might not have so much time to spend with each of the man you interested and I believe you would also want to find your prince as fast as possible. Therefore, you need guidance to assist you in finding your Mr.Right without wasting unnecessary time dating with different men everyday. The 5 steps are as follows:-
1) Know who you are.
This is a very important step because without knowing what type of person you are, you will not know what type of man suits you the best. If you are not sure about yourself, you can try asking your close friends, your siblings or even your parents. They are the people who spend most of the time with you and they probably know you better than you do.
2) Hunt for the most suitable one.
Women usually set their own standards for the type of lover they want. When she is with Tom, she finds Jerry is cuter or more attractive than Tom. Probably Jerry is better looking, richer or more caring than Tom. However, if you keep comparing the one beside you to other men, you will always think that others are better than him. Therefore, you should give up hunting for the best man but start looking for the man who suits you the best.
3) Observation and do something!
Though many people say that love is something you can meet but you cannot force it to happen, I believe if you do nothing when you meet someone you have feeling for, you are just letting go the chance of being with your Mr.Right. In order to fasten the process of finding your Mr.Right, you need to observe. Observe the people around you and try to see and feel if there is anyone who is always there for you. Do what you can to start hunting down your Mr.Right or else others will.
4) Compatible.
If you are a very clean and tidy person, you better think twice before you consider accepting a man who is very messy and not as hygienic as you. When you really love him, you probably ignore the fact that he is unclean and untidy. However, in the long run, there will be lots of arguments if both of you keep the same way of living. This is one of the compatible examples. Other main things you need to consider is whether both of you share the similar characteristics or the opposite, i.e. you like staying at home whole day long but he cannot stand a minute to be at home; he likes climbing hills and adventurous activities but you are so scare of these activities. If both of you are not compatible, it is not easy to maintain a long term relationship.
5) Share the same goals.
If you and him are sharing the same goals, you two will work hand in hand to achieve the goals. If you want to concentrate in your career now while he wants to set up a family, both of you are walking on parallel lines whereby there is no meeting point. However, if both of you decide to work hard together till certain age and get married by then, the same mindset can keep both of you happy and satisfied as both of you are heading towards the same aim.
Lastly, the right man for you does not fall from the sky and even your friends or family members can introduce men to you, you are still the ultimate decision maker. Therefore, treat the 5 steps as your guidance in finding your Mr.Right, these tips save you lots of time and efforts in walking around the bushes.
1) Know who you are.
This is a very important step because without knowing what type of person you are, you will not know what type of man suits you the best. If you are not sure about yourself, you can try asking your close friends, your siblings or even your parents. They are the people who spend most of the time with you and they probably know you better than you do.
2) Hunt for the most suitable one.
Women usually set their own standards for the type of lover they want. When she is with Tom, she finds Jerry is cuter or more attractive than Tom. Probably Jerry is better looking, richer or more caring than Tom. However, if you keep comparing the one beside you to other men, you will always think that others are better than him. Therefore, you should give up hunting for the best man but start looking for the man who suits you the best.
3) Observation and do something!
Though many people say that love is something you can meet but you cannot force it to happen, I believe if you do nothing when you meet someone you have feeling for, you are just letting go the chance of being with your Mr.Right. In order to fasten the process of finding your Mr.Right, you need to observe. Observe the people around you and try to see and feel if there is anyone who is always there for you. Do what you can to start hunting down your Mr.Right or else others will.
4) Compatible.
If you are a very clean and tidy person, you better think twice before you consider accepting a man who is very messy and not as hygienic as you. When you really love him, you probably ignore the fact that he is unclean and untidy. However, in the long run, there will be lots of arguments if both of you keep the same way of living. This is one of the compatible examples. Other main things you need to consider is whether both of you share the similar characteristics or the opposite, i.e. you like staying at home whole day long but he cannot stand a minute to be at home; he likes climbing hills and adventurous activities but you are so scare of these activities. If both of you are not compatible, it is not easy to maintain a long term relationship.
5) Share the same goals.
If you and him are sharing the same goals, you two will work hand in hand to achieve the goals. If you want to concentrate in your career now while he wants to set up a family, both of you are walking on parallel lines whereby there is no meeting point. However, if both of you decide to work hard together till certain age and get married by then, the same mindset can keep both of you happy and satisfied as both of you are heading towards the same aim.
Lastly, the right man for you does not fall from the sky and even your friends or family members can introduce men to you, you are still the ultimate decision maker. Therefore, treat the 5 steps as your guidance in finding your Mr.Right, these tips save you lots of time and efforts in walking around the bushes.
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