"True love, true love, where are you? I have been searching for you high and low, but how come you never come to me?" Since the moment we have desire for love in relationships, we ask this question repeatedly. Even for those who already have lovers, there are some who still doubt if the one beside her is the true love in her life.
When you are in doubt, ask yourself, why are you in doubt? Is it because he is not treating you good enough? Or is it because he is not fulfilling your requirements? Or is it because you keep looking for someone better than the one beside you? Someone who is more caring, more good looking, richer, and most of all, able to satisfy whatever you ask for?
Do you think you can really find the best man in the world? Indeed, there is a possibility that you might find the best man in the world, the best man who is most welcomed and win the votes of 99% of the ladies around the world. However, the possibility of finding such a best man might be 0.01%. Very often than not, we like or love something or someone else more than the thing and the one we currently have or be with is because we do not own it or him. If you believe that the one you can never be with is the best man, I can assure you that you will never find the best man.
Therefore, if you could start learning to appreciate the one beside you, you will have no regrets in life. He might not know how to appreciate you even if you do. However, if you have tried your best to do what you can, that is it. You can either choose to walk away from the one who does not know how to appreciate you or continue to hold on him. There is no right or wrong in love. Only willing or unwilling exists.
When you are willing to do anything for the one you love, you shall not feel suffered or burdened. If you feel tired and sad to continue doing what you are doing now, he might not be the one whom you should hold on. No one can really tell you if he suits you except yourself. To feel contended in a relationship is not easy, just like it is difficult to feel satisfied with the money you can have. You always want more and more, more love or more money.
However, if you meet the one who can give you the feeling that you can lose the whole world but you would still be happy if he is beside you, giving you support faithfully. Congratulations! Lucky you, you have found your true love and most importantly, you know how to appreciate him. All the best to the women out there, wishing you all find your true love one of these days.
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