When a woman is in love, she hopes that her relationship can last as long as possible, if not forever. Therefore, she puts in a lot of effort and time, trying hard to maintain the relationship. However, it does not turn out the way she wants it to be. She gets disappointed. Now, she just wants to enjoy being in a relationship and cannot be bothered whether it lasts or not. Have you gone through this process too? If yes, please do not give up hope in finding your true love that can last longer than you can imagine. Let me show you the very simple way to keep your relationship lasts and you would realize it really works like magic.
What is it then? Before telling you the way, ask yourself the following questions. First, do you wish to share everything of yours with him? For example, you want to share your little secrets with him or tell him something that you would feel embarrassed to tell others except him. Secondly, do you hope that whenever he has something to tell, the first person pops up in his mind is you? Finally, do you desire for a relationship that neither of you need to talk, but both understand each other needs?
If your answers to the abovementioned questions are all positive, then now you are entitled to know the way that helps you to make your dream comes true. Make him your best friend is the answer. I am not saying that you must find a best friend to become your lover, what I mean is to try your best to make the relationship with your boyfriend like a best friendship too. You can fall in love at first sight or fall in love after you know him for some time. Whichever it is, it shall not stop you from making him your best friend.
You might be curious why you must make him your best friend to keep the relationship lasts. Let me reveal the reasons behind. First of all, lust in relationship might not last forever. Therefore, when lust fades away, you need something to maintain the relationship and the best way is when both of you are treating each other as best buddies. Now, take a few minutes to think through, before you met him, who will be the first option to turn to when you have something to tell eagerly? Isn’t she your best friend? When you are in a relationship, you just need to put him as your first option. By doing so, you will be able to keep a good communication with your boyfriend.
Certainly, you do not want to be the only one who is doing it. Therefore, you make yourself to become his best friend too. Won’t you be unhappy if he doesn’t turn to you but others when he has problems to tell or happy moments to share with? I am sure you will. If you do not, I doubt how much you really love him. Therefore, try to make him to talk with you. Be a good listener is the first step in building up a good friendship cum relationship. Listen to him and do not ignore him when he is so eager to share his views with you. You might not be able to solve his problem but at least, he knows that you will be there for him whenever he needs you.
Being his best friend, you are not only having a relationship with him, but also a relationship that lasts as long as a friendship. Try the way out and you will be amazed by the result and of course, in a good way.
What is it then? Before telling you the way, ask yourself the following questions. First, do you wish to share everything of yours with him? For example, you want to share your little secrets with him or tell him something that you would feel embarrassed to tell others except him. Secondly, do you hope that whenever he has something to tell, the first person pops up in his mind is you? Finally, do you desire for a relationship that neither of you need to talk, but both understand each other needs?
If your answers to the abovementioned questions are all positive, then now you are entitled to know the way that helps you to make your dream comes true. Make him your best friend is the answer. I am not saying that you must find a best friend to become your lover, what I mean is to try your best to make the relationship with your boyfriend like a best friendship too. You can fall in love at first sight or fall in love after you know him for some time. Whichever it is, it shall not stop you from making him your best friend.
You might be curious why you must make him your best friend to keep the relationship lasts. Let me reveal the reasons behind. First of all, lust in relationship might not last forever. Therefore, when lust fades away, you need something to maintain the relationship and the best way is when both of you are treating each other as best buddies. Now, take a few minutes to think through, before you met him, who will be the first option to turn to when you have something to tell eagerly? Isn’t she your best friend? When you are in a relationship, you just need to put him as your first option. By doing so, you will be able to keep a good communication with your boyfriend.
Certainly, you do not want to be the only one who is doing it. Therefore, you make yourself to become his best friend too. Won’t you be unhappy if he doesn’t turn to you but others when he has problems to tell or happy moments to share with? I am sure you will. If you do not, I doubt how much you really love him. Therefore, try to make him to talk with you. Be a good listener is the first step in building up a good friendship cum relationship. Listen to him and do not ignore him when he is so eager to share his views with you. You might not be able to solve his problem but at least, he knows that you will be there for him whenever he needs you.
Being his best friend, you are not only having a relationship with him, but also a relationship that lasts as long as a friendship. Try the way out and you will be amazed by the result and of course, in a good way.
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